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| Dating Questions: Online Dating Message-Examples Photo source EXAMPLES AND TIPS FOR ONLINE DATING MESSAGE
Impress her...
When you write your first dating message you have to make an impression.
You need six or seven seconds to present yourself in an unfavorable light.
So, it means that long mails are not well accepted by women. Bear in mind that!
Don’t send messages, longer than 3 phrases. Why? Your profile is your visit card, not the first email, so emphasize on it.
Try your first message to look like a hookbait. Its goal is to entice someone to visit your profile.
Tip: Write dating messages that will trigger off women’s attention.
I hope, thanks to the examples and explanations described below, you will be able to write your perfect online dating message.
1.HOW LONG SHOULD BE THE FIRST DATING MESSAGE?
Keep it Short!
First email should be three or four sentences in length. Make sure to put some catchy info and try to be a little bit humorous, but don’t exaggerate.
If you possess no writing skills, you can see some good examples here and then just alter them a bit. Do not forget your primary intent, to be different, unique and straight to the point.
Writing dating message which contains more than100 words is a lost cause.
Your main concept is to achieve great first impression and probably she‘ll write back.
2. WHAT TO DO BEFORE I WRITE THE DATING MESSAGE?
Read Her Profile Carefully!
Prior to compose your first oline dating message, take a look at her profile and write about common interest in your email. Don’t forget to give praise and compliments upon her.
Do not overdo it! It might have a negative effect. Did I talk about your spelling mistakes? Check them twice! If she added you to her favorite list, it's a good sign.
3. WHAT SHOULD MY MESSAGE BE?
It’s Just an Introduction. Remember that!
Don’t write very long emails if know someone slightly.
Well, you can write long dating messages if already know the woman in question.
If she doesn't want to make a reply to your message, then it’s a big mistake to be insistent.
Don’t urge your precious girl to regret for opening the email. Be brief and concise!
Emphasize on the first opening line-it is important.
Use it as an ice breaker. Don’t be shy, show your creativity.
4. HOW MANY QUESTIONS SHOULD I ASK?
Don't Ask a Lot Of Questions... ,or the Wrong ones, at Least!
Avoid emails sounding like this“I want to learn more about you”, “What do you do in your spare time”, “Have you got a boyfriend?”.You have no chances, then.
Most probably to get ”Don’t you read my profile? So, read her profile first, before asking. Try to be original and frank with her, although it’s quite difficult.
Tip: Less questions, more reading (her mind)!
5. I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO CONTAIN MY MESSAGE…
Common Ideas You Both Share
Explore if you have the same interests with her, common points of view(very important!!!). Thousands of topics could be found. Make a research. Probably, you know how to use the Internet.
Don’t show yourself as an expert, such behaviour may irritate her in the beginning. Be her match!
6.WHAT TO AVOID?
Avoid Mentioning Her Looks
Don’t lay particular stress on her looks, at least in the first few messages. There is no profit in that. Use it later, when determine relationship. However, do not exaggerate, maybe she has heard the same“cute words” million times.
7. MAY I USE CHAT ROOM LANGUAGE?
No. Use Stylish Tone. Be respectful!
Don't use abusive language. Women are not masochists. Show a profound respect to them, and forget about your street slang. Your distinct tone will be highly valued. Demonstrate attention to them and you'll be rewarded.
8. MAY I PLEAD FOR HER PHONE NUMBER IN THE FIRST MESSAGE?
No. Don't push her!
Women hate violence. You can't establish lasting connection in that way. Just simply present yourself and wait.......hoping to arise her curiosity.
Be positive! Don't expect rejection, because humble men aren't well accepted.
9. May I send Another Message on the Next Day if I Fail the First Time?
Don't fall into despair, if fail in your first dating message.
It's not recommended to send another email on the next day. Wait a couple of days. Write another, thus you indicate your interest to her (probably she will be flattered in some way), and most likely you would receive a message back.
EXAMPLES OF BAD ONLINE DATING MESSAGE
Women Probably Will Delete It if:
1.has a lot of spelling mistakes, grammatically incorrect;
2.ill-defined, unclear message, not responding to her profile;
3.full of vulgarity and sexual innuendos;
4.it is a long e-mail(do not say all in one, prompt the girl to want more and more);
5.it contains complaining about an ex-girlfriend;
6.you speak all about your problems, its boring;
7.you try to cheat her(don’t forget-women are very intuitive!);
8.your e-mail starts like this:”Hi, How are U!”;
EXAMPLES OF PROPER ONLINE MESSAGEWOMEN SHOULD RESPOND IF THE MESSAGE IS:
1.grammatically correct and clearly written;
2.brief, plain and simple, responding to her profile;
3.you are polite, confident, funny and articulate;
4.are friendly and do not impose yourself;
4.ask a specific question, to show you have read her profile;
5.have nice pics(at least one face shot and one full body), interesting profile;
6.if you alone on the picture;
7.you are amusing, witty and make her laugh;
8.radiate something special, women like that;
LEAD BALLOON MESSAGES
Examples of online dating messages leading to rejection. Avoid them!
hi u wanna chat?
hi , do u have facebook account?
oh, dear, wanna be your humble servant…
hello do u have bf?
hi sexy ....can we be friends
wana have .... with me?
MY CONCLUSION:
Do not copy/paste form dating messages from the Internet. Why? Every woman has her own unique idea about how men have to contact her. Internet form message can’t “unlock every door”.Let’s face it, some girls love long emails(especially with plain pics ones). Unfortunately, they don’t receive too many emails daily, and for them every long email is a sign of an admission. But what about the pretty ones? For sure they are flooded(at least 20+ daily). Do you think they will read every single email, more than 5-6 sentences long? No, of course. They don’t need too much attention. They know their own value. It’s possible to click on your profile, and if like it, might give you an answer. So, if you seek success with these girls, pay attention to your profile, first.
And don’t forget Danny Devito’s words”Life is a game, whoever has the most money at the end wins!”
Good Luck!
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