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Online
dating has been in existence for almost as long as the internet itself.
While first it was the dating newsgroups and bulletin board services that
played host to online dating, now
it’s full blown websites and even smartphone apps. Zoosk, eHarmony, Skout,
Tinder, Match.com, PlentyofFish, JDate and Meetme are some of the trending
examples.
Dating websites and
apps allow users to sign up by filling in their basic details and setting up
their profiles which can be viewed by others signed up on the platform. The
users can view profiles, shortlist prospective partners, exchange messages and
fix dates.
While many people have their apprehensions about the authenticity
and reliability of these websites and their effectiveness, most people and
internet experts agree that online dating is here to stay and will continue to gain momentum in the coming
years.
Why to
choose online dating?
It is not some fad or trick, it REALLY WORKS! Due to busy work
schedules, many people find it hard to socialize outside their work and family
circles and are unable to find suitable matches whom they can date. Also, there
are some who feel shy approaching the opposite sex in the conventional manner and
find it more comfortable to establish a conversation online before meeting in
person.
Online
dating websites and apps help users go through the extensive database of
profiles of interested singles and scout for suitable partners based on several
factors such as their interests, background, profession, expectations, physical
appearance etc. Dating online is more convenient and yields better results in
shorter period of time as opposed to conventional dating. However, it does not
guarantee success for everyone. It may be possible that even after dating tons
of people you found on a particular website, you haven’t been able to land up
with the kind of person you were looking
for from the very beginning.
How to
make online dating work for you?
To make the most of online
tools work well for you, it is essential that you fill your profile right. Be honest
about the details you are providing and do not mention anything that makes you
look too desperate to others. Be specific and do not indulge in expressing or
sharing way more than what is asked. Also, if you are really serious about
finding someone to date, it makes sense that you check the website or app at
least once a week; there may be some messages in your inbox that you’d love to
reply to. Be clear in your mind about the qualities that you are looking for
and do not get over-selective; after all, everybody has some flaws. Shortlist
potential partners patiently and feel confident about who you are. Take time to
get to know the other person by exchanging few dating messages online before you finally
decide to set up a date.
Common
Mistakes People Make
Impatience and desperation are the two biggest enemies of online dating. Nobody wants to get
associated with desperate people who can go to any length to secure a date.
Therefore, be yourself and let your personality show itself as it is. Also,
many times people get impatient and give up if they are unable to find suitable
partners within few days of signing up. It is important to remember that online
dating isn’t magic. Perseverance and optimism can go a long way.
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Does Online Dating Really Work?
