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10 Reasons Why Not To Sleep With Your Ex

10 Reasons Why Not To Sleep With Your Ex
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You will be surprised at how many people are willing to sleep with their ex. It seems convenient, right? After all, you both loved each other at some point, and I presume you both know how well each person performs in bed. Of course, sleeping with your ex is not a good idea (you probably didn’t need me to tell you that). Let me give you ten reasons as to why!

1.      You broke up for a reason. You two were not meant to be together. Sleeping with each other on a whim is not going to fix anything. In fact,  it is going to make everything a great deal more complicated. In fact; it is not uncommon to find exes who sleep with one another end up arguing after they have finished their passionate love making.

2.    If you sleep with your ex then you are running the risk of trapping yourself in a sex cycle. You are trapping yourself in a position where you will find it difficult to say no to them the next time they ask. This is just going to lead to the same problems that you had before.

3.    You may think the sex is great, but you sooner or later you are going to regret sleeping with your ex. When you realize what a huge mistake you made, you will end up feeling absolutely awful.

4.    Sex may not actually be as good as it was in the past. Much of the pleasure of sex is derived from the fact that you have a true connection with the person you are having sex with. If you have broken up in the past then it is likely that connection will no longer be there. The result will be absolutely awful sex.

5.     You are not going to get feelings again for one another just because you had sex. A broken relationship is surprisingly difficult to rebuild. This is not an hour and a half long rom-com where anything can happen. This is a relationship which has been broken and can take years to repair, if at all.

6.    Your ex may take it as a sign that you are willing to get back together. This is not going to be good. The last thing you want is for them to become too clingy, right?

7.     Your ex is probably going to belittle you when you have sex. They will expect you to have become more experienced in their absence. It is unlikely you will have done. Your ex will pick up on that and try to make you feel bad!

8.    If you are in a long relationship then it is likely that you will be confident that your ex has no sexual diseases and the like. If they have had tons of sex since the break-up however then there is a small chance they will have picked something up. You don’t want to catch a sexual disease, right?

9.   The person in the bed with you is not the same person that you were with previously. They are different. They have had new experiences. The two of you hate each other.

10.  They will be forever comparing you to their newest sexual partners.
 How would you feel if your partner turned around and said “well, John didn’t do  that”, or “Emily was willing to do that”?

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